It wasn’t my first time travelling out of my parent’s vicinity but it just seemed new all over. Leaving my friends and people that had grown to become family behind again, am sure it’s not me alone but it’s always super hard.
I came as an international student in 2012 to study medicine at Texila American university, Georgetown, Guyana after my studies in the Philippines.
When I got here, it was not exactly what I had thought it would be but I guess part of being an adult is adapting and trying to make things work. A lot needed to change and all responsibility was on me now, every decision I make counts.
Let me tip you in on some of the things I learnt that might be useful
1. You call the shots now: It’s absolute freedom! No one is supervising or instructing you. You are so on your own especially with issues that needs immediate attention. Parents and friends could chip in occasionally but the decision making are all you now, so make the right ones.
2. Try comfortable but affordable: I would not advice you to go cheap on things that can bring you comfort especially if you are staying more than a year but don’t over do it, get necessities only and be wise about your spending. Go for things that would make studying and living conducive for you to attain excellence. Like I tell my friends, the outside world might be chaotic but as long as my home makes me smile as I step in, I will be fine.
3. Make friends not enemies: You are in a new country to study, I get it, also try to mingle with people in it and experience their culture and the jaw dropping wonders it brings. You can also build amazing relationships and network from there.
4. Communicate with your people often: Technology has made things much more easier, so make use of it. If you can’t call, drop a message, check up on them. It will ease their worries and also keep you calm to focus. My rule, “If you miss them, beep them”.
5. Move around: I had a triangular movement for a while in Philippines. It went like this; home→church→home→school→home. Few weeks before leaving the country I started exploring and I realized I had not seen enough of the country but it was time to pack my bags and say goodbye. I didn’t make the same mistake in Guyana, I take any chances I got to travel around. Go out and see the interesting places in the country,
6. Learn the language: I wish someone had informed me earlier about this I would have saved a lot of money. Immediately I speak, the prices of items automatically increases because it is so obvious I am a foreigner. It might seem irrelevant but if you are staying more than a year I advice you should, especially for shopping and communication sake, learn the basics.
7. Take your studies seriously: if you succeed, it’s all for you. I am not saying don’t have a time out but don’t place the wrong things as priority. Study hard, participate in class, ask questions, submit assignments on time, show up for class and so on, am sure you got the point already.
I know it’s tough to be a student in a foreign land at the beginning, as time goes on you will get used to it. I hope this was insightful enough to help someone..
Lots of Love
Thanks for sharing the advice. I am planning to study aboard. I live in the U.S.
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You are welcome! Thank you for reading.
Oh yah, where are you planning to go if it’s ok to ask?
US is pretty cool for studying..or is it an exchange program?
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You’re welcome. I haven’t decided yet. It’s for studying.
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Oh ok, it’s good though, more exposure and you get see the world.
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That’s true. I’m so ready to explore the other side of the world.
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That’s the spirit! Have fun
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Good
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Thanks blessing!
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Yeah! It was really insightful. Thanks for dropping that.
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You are welcome Dapo! Am glad it was insightful for you.. Thanks for reading and commenting..😃😃
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You are welcome!
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Great post!
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Thanks suraj! Hope you are doing good?
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Yeah, am perfectly fine.
Hope you’re doing well too. 😇
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Yah, now that I am home, I am more than doing great 😃😃, i am fabulous.
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I love this one like anything. Even though I am abroad already, I have taken 5 solid things that I need to improve on. Thank you for sharing.
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You are welcome queen! 👑 Thanks for reading, wow, 5 is a lot, I am glad you loved it and got somethings to improve on. All the best with the rest of your stay abroad. Xoxo
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Nice….thank you for sharing!!!
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Marie T, you are welcome!! Thanks for reading and commenting dear.. xo
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Good Info 👍
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Thanks Aloy! How has been your week?
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My weeks are always been the same 😀 how about yours?
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Going good till now when I realize I have to be on call today.. but it’s going to go well when I speak to my senior resident, hopefully she allows me exit, my fingers are crossed.
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All the best
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It went well, am home!
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So interesting, I love that
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Thank you so much! I am glad you loved it.
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Impactful and helpful information. Keep it up dear.
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Thank you so much! I really appreciate you reading and commenting on my piece. 💘
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Philippines!!!!! Wow you’re lucky to have had that opportunity to study abroad. I’ve always wanted to
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V.O.L thanks for reading!
Yes, all thanks to my parents for making it happen. Since I left highschool I have been studying overseas, my first and second degree and now my housemanship.
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Oh wow. What country are you from originally if you don’t mind me asking 😊
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Oh Sure, I am from Nigeria.
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Owww yeah, I should have guessed from your username lol
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Yahhh, I guess but only if you are from Nigeria yourself. It’s my name I used for the blog.
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Yeah I am also. Kinda assuming you’re Yoruba?
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Yes I am! You?
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Yeah me too babe lol. Hey sis🙋🏾🙋🏾😍
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Yup.. same. Hey sis😂🙋🏾
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Hahaha, nice😃😃… hello sis. What’s your native name?
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Olamide lol. Hence the V.O.L (Victoria Olamide)
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Nice, my wealth is here too. It is amazing to know am not here by myself.. let’s keep in touch if it’s ok by you. Xoxo
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Sure darling. I wish there was some kind of DM on WordPress so we can talk without spamming your post (apologies 😂🙈) xx
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Ahh, I know you have an instagram page, what the name?
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I read your piece on women tearing eachother down, nice one girl! It was long but encouraging, the change starts with us, you and I.
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Thanks girl. I often get a bit carried away when ranting 😫😂😅. But yes indeed.. #GirlPower ❤️
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Yes 👍 #GirlPower 😃💘
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Though I am no more a student, but I lacked in point 5.
Point 6 would have helped if I know on time, but even at now I am still lacking the skills to speak like the natives 😩😩 (seriously in need of hyperpolyglotism gift 😢). Though with experience, I know how to maneuver myself to make up for what I lacked in skills (for eg… Instead of speaking immediately to the seller for the price of goods, I will just point at it 😜😁 or calling taxi base instead of picking up random ones e.t.c) .
In all, being a polyglot is a valuable asset for a foreigner in a new environment be you a student, tourist or a businessman. But unfortunately not all of us are hyperpolyglot. But don’t worry if you are not like me, the above tips of mine and many more can help you to meander through sometimes.
As always, this article is truly so insightful.
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Thanks kaycee! I know right, I do that too, especially the pointing part, after u say d Prices then I speak. I am glad it was insightful for you.. ❤❤
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Beautiful post… i love it!
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Thanks bafikile! I am glad you love it.. I appreciate you reading and commenting. Xoxo
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You are welcome.
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Hope you are doing good? Have a blessed week ahead.
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Yes i am… have a blessed week too.
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That was really insightful and helpful. At least it will easy the process of my encounter when ever i get there though as a historian i do alot of theoritical exploration and travel. I get more confidence when i get inform about anything before handling it. It saves alot. Thanks.
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I am glad it was insightful for you! Yah it’s better that way, saves more time and wasted effort or energy. Thanks for reading and commenting on my piece.😃
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Keep sharing!
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Thanks anonymous mind for stopping by and commenting! Really appreciate it.
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Philippines, huh?
How is the language barrier?
I knew people studying in Brazil from JA and it’s going hella a slow because of that language barrier.
–Bless
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Oh yah, the language barrier is a thing sometimes but not always in Philippines cos some of them most of them now speak English unlike Brazil where only few people actually speak. When I went there it was funny at all but I gathered a little Portuguese that could help me survive my holiday.
I guess you should just learn the language especially if you are staying than a year.
Thanks drewkiercey for stopping by and commenting.. enjoy your new week.
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Much interesting, thank you for sharing. 😊
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You are welcome amber dearie! Thanks for checking out my piece and commenting.
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Love what you wrote here! I’m not a student, but I did move to the U.S. last year and some of these things apply to me as well 😊 loved it 👍💗
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Thanks literallydee! Yah it can apply to any one abroad actually. I welcome you officially to my site and I appreciate you stopping by, also I am glad you loved it!
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